Shouldn’t you have your house in order before you start telling others how to organize theirs?
Would you listen to an alcoholic’s advice about the dangers of drinking while he/she is still intoxicated?
You may argue that people that have experienced a given problem are better equipped to tell you about it. And I partially agree but I rather listen to the person that not only got lost in the wilderness but that was able to find the path out it.
Who would you choose to listen to? Who do you trust?
With so many prophets out there, with some many people with new found voices, with so many lies and manipulation. It gets harder and harder to ignore the noise.
Don’t only tell me about the virtues of your method, your choices, your culture.
Show me.